“Self-growth is tender”

Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. There’s no greater investment.

Stephen R. Covey
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Self-growth is work. It takes time, energy, focus. It can be tough, frustrating, infuriating. Progress is precarious. Backsliding, falling into old habits, coming up short – it happens. You’ll ask if the effort is worth it.

This is just a friendly reminder to be Gentle with yourself.

Be patient. Be understanding. Give yourself time and space. Because as Stephen Covey rightly observes, “There is no greater investment.”

Action:

  • When you find yourself being critical of yourself, speak to yourself like you would a good friend.
  • Celebrate succes. Focus on the progress you’ve made, not just on the way you still have to go.
  • What unrealistic expectations might you be harboring? How might you readjust your goals with more of a gentle approach?